41: The Universal Laws – Part 3: The Law of Gender

00:00:00: Hello my love and welcome back to a new episode of the Bayonne podcast.

00:00:04: I am so happy you're here!

00:00:06: Today we are continuing our mini-series on The Hermetic Laws Of The Universe.

00:00:10: In the first episode, We explored the law of mentalism where we spoke about the idea that everything is consciousness.

00:00:26: It's important to understand that your emotions are frequency carriers, they determine the vibration you're currently embodying.

00:00:35: So in this second episode we explored a law of polarity and understanding.

00:00:40: everything exists both its presence.

00:00:45: So if you haven't listened to those two episodes yet, I really encourage you go back and start there before listening this one because today's conversation builds on everything we've already explored together.

00:00:56: Today We are talking about the law of gender.

00:01:00: Understanding these principles completely changed my way at looking energy And honestly it also changes how i understand manifestation.

00:01:10: Now Before going any further ,I want to clarify something.

00:01:15: The law of gender is not about sexuality, and it isn't our biological sex either.

00:01:23: It's about archetypal energy – masculine energy & feminine energy.

00:01:30: This universal law teaches us that creation happens through the balance these two forces.

00:01:36: It has a relationship between masculine and feminine energy which creates magnetism It creates movement, it creates life itself.

00:01:45: So if you've listened to previous episodes of this podcast.

00:01:48: You have probably heard me speak about masculine and feminine energy before.

00:01:52: Interestingly many people don't realize that This isn´t simply a personal development concept.

00:01:58: Its actually one the hermetic laws A universal principle.

00:02:03: And because its Universal it applies To every human being regardless Of whether your are man or woman regardless of how you identify.

00:02:13: This isn't about gender identity, it's about energetic dynamics.

00:02:18: so let's make this practical.

00:02:21: think about the way you move through your life.

00:02:24: are you someone who is constantly leaning forward always doing?

00:02:29: Always making things happen solving problems planning the next step?

00:02:33: Always feeling like everything depends on you?

00:02:37: or Do you naturally know how to lean back?

00:02:41: Do you trust life, do you allow yourself to receive.

00:02:46: Do you believe that not everything has been controlled by you?

00:02:50: These are two very different energetic states.

00:02:53: The first one is predominantly masculine energy.

00:02:56: the second one is predominately feminine energy and they want to emphasize something here.

00:03:02: just because your woman doesn't automatically mean You're deeply connected with your feminine energy.

00:03:07: Actually, often the opposite is the case.

00:03:10: And just because you're a man doesn't automatically mean your living from your masculine energy either.

00:03:15: We all carry both.

00:03:17: The question is which one is leading?

00:03:21: Now let's look at relationships for a moment Because this is where many people begin to recognize these dynamics.

00:03:28: Let say as a woman You longed for partner with strong grounded masculine energy A Man who is present Who feels stable who leads with calmness and clarity.

00:03:41: If that's what you truly desire, it is important to understand that masculine and feminine energy naturally complete one another like two magnets.

00:03:50: if your constantly operating from a highly masculine state always leading controlling organizing and directing then often expressing the same energetic quality And when two people are both trying to occupy the same energetic role, something feels out of balance.

00:04:11: On the other hand if what you desire is a partner who enjoys following in your lead someone with a softer more receptive energy then your own masculine energy may actually create beautiful complement.

00:04:26: neither dynamic as right or wrong.

00:04:28: it's simply about understanding energy.

00:04:31: The more aware you become of your own energetic patterns, the more consciously And there are understandable reasons for that, yeah?

00:04:57: We often work in environments that ask us to lead.

00:05:00: To organize.

00:05:01: To solve problems and make decisions every day.

00:05:04: Many women also carry enormous responsibility at home.

00:05:09: Think about motherhood for a moment.

00:05:11: So much of parenting naturally calls up on masculine energy Making sure everything is organized guiding leading creating structures making decisions.

00:05:22: Did you pack your school bag.

00:05:23: Don't forget your homework.

00:05:25: Please sit properly at the table.

00:05:26: Have you brushed your teeth?

00:05:28: All of these are expressions of masculine energy.

00:05:32: They're necessary, they're beautiful but there's still masculine qualities Which is why it so important to become aware how much time we spend in each energy Because awareness always a first step as you know.

00:05:44: Once you recognize your dominant pattern You can begin creating balance And balance exactly what this universal law is inviting us into.

00:05:53: Now, I also want to clear up another misconception.

00:05:56: Feminine energy is not about sitting still all day getting your nails done meditating for hours.

00:06:02: It's not about constantly receiving massages or living in a permanently relaxed state.

00:06:07: none of those things define feminine energy.

00:06:10: Everything is energy.

00:06:12: so the real question isn't how feminine do i look?

00:06:16: The real question is what they are going to create Because at moment you begin changing your energy Everything around you begins to change as well.

00:06:25: Masculine energy is the energy of doing, it loves creating structure finding solutions taking action bringing ideas into the physical world.

00:06:35: It's just an energy that helps us move things forward and its an incredibly valuable energy.

00:06:42: without masculine Energy very little would ever become reality.

00:06:46: but there is this other side feminine energy.

00:06:50: Feminine energy is rooted in receiving.

00:06:53: It's expansive, fluid and open.

00:06:56: It trusts it allows.

00:06:59: It creates space instead of trying to control every outcome.

00:07:03: And this where things become really interesting because when we live almost exclusively from masculine energy We begin believing that everything depends on us!

00:07:14: We believe if you don't make it happen...it won´t happen.

00:07:18: We trust our own effort more than we trust life itself.

00:07:22: More that we trust the unseen, more then we trust things can also come to us.

00:07:27: It's almost like saying I trust myself but i don't really trust Life!

00:07:32: I Trust what I Can control But I Don't Trust What I Cannot See.

00:07:38: And they think.

00:07:38: so many people live from this place without even realizing it.

00:07:43: They carry everything themselves They organize everything, they solve every problem.

00:07:48: They hold everything together and after a while their exhausted.

00:07:53: And the reason for that is that there are living almost entirely from one side of their own energetic nature.

00:07:59: This where the hustle mentality often comes From The belief more effort always creates more results That everything depends on doing more Working harder Controlling More Planning More Managing More And yes, sometimes that actually works.

00:08:16: You can build an incredible life through determination alone.

00:08:20: you can achieve remarkable things.

00:08:23: but many people also discover that constant doing comes at a price.

00:08:28: they feel disconnected from themselves From their joy...from the relationships ...from there ability to simply receive.

00:08:38: and deep inside they begin longing for something softer more spacious Something that allows them to breathe again.

00:08:46: They longed to reconnect with their feminine energy.

00:08:50: So let's come back two relationships for a moment.

00:08:54: There is I believe that we hear quite often people say Strong man can't handle successful women.

00:09:01: Personally, I don't believe that's true.

00:09:04: I think it's much more nuanced than that I Believe.

00:09:08: masculine and feminine energy naturally seek balance.

00:09:12: they complement one another.

00:09:14: Think about creation itself.

00:09:16: A sperm cell is drawn toward an egg, masculine and feminine come together.

00:09:22: Life created through their union.

00:09:25: This the creative principle of the universe.

00:09:28: It's a balance between these two energies that allow something entirely new to emerge.

00:09:34: And this same principle exists far beyond biology.

00:09:38: It shows up in every relationship Every partnership Every creative process actually.

00:09:44: So if, as women we remain almost exclusively in masculine energy all the time always leading controlling making every decision We may unintentionally make it difficult for polarity to exist within a relationship.

00:10:01: Again this isn't about becoming passive or giving your power away.

00:10:06: It's simply asking yourself Where do I no longer need to carry everything?

00:10:13: Where could I allow myself to soften?

00:10:16: where Could they receive instead of constantly producing and you know what sometimes the most loving thing we can do is Allow someone else To contribute, to lead for a moment.

00:10:29: To support us who hold us.

00:10:32: And this principle doesn't only apply to romantic relationships.

00:10:35: it also shows up in the way We lead others Whether that's within your family or friendships Your community or anywhere.

00:10:44: people naturally look to you for guidance.

00:10:47: If our leadership comes only from masculine energy, always directing correct and controlling People often become dependent on us.

00:10:56: They wait for instructions and hesitate take ownership they stop trusting themselves.

00:11:03: But when masculine clarity is balanced with feminine trust something so beautiful begins to happen.

00:11:11: People step into their own strength.

00:11:14: Because they don't only feel guided, but most of all... ...they feel trusted!

00:11:19: And trust is one the greatest gifts we can offer another human being.

00:11:23: and of course this can be very uncomfortable because in a moment when you trust someone otherwise it often appears on our head.

00:11:31: What if they disappoint me?

00:11:34: what If I don´t do it the way that I want?

00:11:37: What if everything falls apart?

00:11:40: So we step back to control.

00:11:42: I'll just do it myself.

00:11:43: It's easier if i handle it.

00:11:46: Maybe you've caught yourself saying that before, but every time we choose control over trust We strengthen the same energetic pattern is not to abandon one energy in favor of the other, it's to allow both work together.

00:12:19: To know when action is needed and that no one surrender creates far more than effort ever could.

00:12:28: so let's bring this into another area of life receiving because I think this where a law of gender becomes especially beautiful.

00:12:37: So many us have learned if we want something We need to work harder And while there are certainly moments for action as necessary, many people never experience what it truly feels like to receive.

00:12:50: To allow life to meet them...to let opportunities arrive!

00:12:55: ...To trust that not everything has to be forced.

00:12:59: Receiving is deeply connected with feminine energy.

00:13:02: It asks us to soften and open…to become available and receptive Because there is a profound difference between making something happen and allowing something to come toward you.

00:13:15: Think about it this way, whenever you want to receive something in your life whether that's love support abundance inspiration or simply more ease There is usually some thing that first asks for your masculine energy.

00:13:32: You may need to take the first step have the conversation apply for opportunity Say yes, open the door.

00:13:40: Plant a seed.

00:13:42: Masculine energy creates movement but the moment after... The moment of receiving belongs to feminine energy Once you've done what it yours do can allow yourself to receive?

00:13:56: Can stop trying control every outcome?

00:13:59: Can trust that life is still moving even when your not.

00:14:04: This where balance begins.

00:14:06: Neither energy more important than other Creation needs always both.

00:14:12: And this is really what the law of gender is inviting us to remember, not that we become only masculine and also not to be feminine.

00:14:21: it's inviting us understand when each energy is asking to lead.

00:14:25: sometimes life asks you take action sometime.

00:14:29: life ask you wait some time.

00:14:31: it asked you speak or listen?

00:14:35: Sometimes it ask you move but sometimes receive.

00:14:39: The wisdom lies in the knowing difference.

00:14:43: Because creation happens through dance between both energy, not through living entirely from one.

00:14:50: So my dear let's take a step back for moment and look at that journey we've been on together so far.

00:14:55: We began with law of mentalism, understanding.

00:14:59: everything begins in consciousness.

00:15:02: Everything exists energetically before it ever becomes physical.

00:15:06: Then explore the Law of Vibration.

00:15:09: Your emotional state determines the frequency from which you meet life.

00:15:13: And because your emotions carry a frequency, they influence what you naturally become available for.

00:15:20: Then we spoke about the law of polarity The understanding that everything has two sides That every experience contains its opposite That Life is always inviting us to see the whole coin not just one side.

00:15:34: and today...the Law Of Gender The beautiful balance between masculine and feminine energy.

00:15:40: The understanding that creation doesn't happen through force alone, nor through receiving a loan.

00:15:46: it happens to their partnership ,through harmony .

00:15:51: So today I simply want you to become more aware.

00:15:55: notice yourself throughout the day.

00:15:57: ask yourselves which energy is leading me right now.

00:16:01: Am I trying to control everything?

00:16:03: Are my carrying more than i need too, am i constantly doing without allowing myself the receive or perhaps i'm waiting for life to change.

00:16:12: Without taking a step that is mine to take?

00:16:15: there's no judgment in these questions only awareness because awareness as always where transformation begins.

00:16:22: so the more deeply you understand this universal principles The More Naturally Life Begins To Make Sense.

00:16:28: You stop fighting yourself, you stop fighting life and instead... ...you begin working with the intelligence that has always been there.

00:16:37: That to me is the real beauty of the Hermetic Loves They're inviting us.

00:16:43: remember how life already works And once we began living in harmony these principles everything starts flowing a little more ease.

00:16:53: So my love if this episode resonated with you I'd love to hear from your Tell me what stood out the most.

00:17:01: Did you recognize your own dominant energy?

00:17:04: Or perhaps this episode helped to understand someone else a little more deeply, I'd love to know.

00:17:10: and hey if you knew anyone who would benefit from hearing these conversations feel free share it with them!

00:17:17: It will mean well for all of us.

00:17:20: Thankyou so much for listening.

00:17:22: i'm sending you so much love.

00:17:23: take good care of yourself.

00:17:26: see u again very soon in the next episode.

00:17:29: Bye-bye, yours Michelle!