40: The Universal Laws – Part 2: The Law of Polarity

00:00:00: Hello my love and welcome back to a new episode of the Bayonne podcast.

00:00:04: I'm so happy you're here, i am back from two weeks of doing nothing ,of having holidays on being in the beautiful swiss mountains!

00:00:13: And now we are here to continue what we've started with which is our mini series On The Hermetic Laws Of The Universe.

00:00:24: So In the last episode We explored the law And if you haven't listened to that episode yet, I highly recommend going back and starting there because today's conversation builds directly on those two principles.

00:00:41: So today we're talking about the law of polarity.

00:00:45: The Law of Polarity is such an important principle Because it reminds us everything in this universe has a dual nature.

00:00:52: Everything!

00:00:53: Everything has two sides.

00:00:56: We experience life here on earth through duality.

00:01:01: You could describe these as a positive side and the negative side, but I actually don't like those words very much because they immediately create judgment.

00:01:10: The law of polarity isn't about good or bad.

00:01:12: It's about opposites two sides of the same coin.

00:01:17: one can only be experienced Because the other exists.

00:01:21: You wouldn't know what light is if you had never experienced darkness.

00:01:33: So very often it's only our human mind that labels one side as good and the other is bad, but the universe itself doesn't seem to make a distinction.

00:01:54: The Universe meets everything without judgement – I think this is such beautiful perspective because this perspective invites us look beyond our own interpretation of what's happening!

00:02:06: When you speak about polarity….

00:02:07: One most beautiful symbol comes from my mind is Yin and Yang two opposite forces, the dark and light.

00:02:15: Two sides of the same wholeness Yin represents a darker aspect And Yang represents lighter aspects.

00:02:22: They are true opposites Yet each one is equally important.

00:02:27: Neither one is complete without another.

00:02:30: Together they create wholenesses.

00:02:33: If you've ever looked at the Yin & Yang symbol You've probably noticed something fascinating.

00:02:39: Within the dark side, there's already a small seed of light and within the light-side There is already a little seed of darkness.

00:02:49: I love that so much because it reminds us That life is never completely one thing.

00:02:54: Every experience already carries The potential for its opposite Life always moving and changing Always flowing between these two poles.

00:03:05: But the law of polarity teaches us something else that is equally important.

00:03:09: It tells us, everything exists not only as two opposite poles but also in its presence and it's absence.

00:03:17: So there is joy And there are the absences of Joy.

00:03:21: There is sadness And there is the absence of sadness.

00:03:24: There is abundance And this is such an important distinction especially when we begin working consciously with energy because the absence of sadness is not automatically the same as joy.

00:03:38: Sadness is one energetic field, its presence and it's absence belong to that same field.

00:03:45: Joy however is its own field ,its own frequency, its own experience –the same is true for abundance–.

00:03:53: the absence or lack doesn't automatically create abundance.

00:03:57: Abundance is a completely different energetic field.

00:04:01: So why is this important?

00:04:03: because it changes the way we think about transformation.

00:04:07: When you're experiencing sadness, The potential for joy already exists within your.

00:04:13: when You are experiencing lack ,the potential of abundance already exist with in you and when you experience fear, the potential for peace already exists inside you.

00:04:25: That is the beauty of polarity.

00:04:26: Your opposite pole is never missing.

00:04:29: It already exists.

00:04:31: The question is simple whether we know how to move towards it.

00:04:35: And this brings us right back to the law of vibration that we explored in our last episode, because….

00:04:41: How do we move from one pole to another?

00:04:43: By changing arrow vibrations!

00:04:46: by changing frequency from which experience life.

00:04:50: The Law Of Polarity shows as both poles exist.

00:04:54: The law of Vibration explains how we moved between them And once you begin to understand how these universal laws work together, they start creating a much bigger picture.

00:05:05: One law supports the next and they are all connected!

00:05:10: There is A Beautiful Sentence in Siddhartha by Hermann Hesse –a book I have loved ever since that was young girl and one i still return today– so he writes The opposite of every truth is equally true.

00:05:24: To me, this is one of the most beautiful descriptions.

00:05:54: Imagine you decide to follow a dream.

00:05:57: You choose something that truly matters to you, maybe it's the new relationship.

00:06:02: Maybe its moving into another country or writing a book Or sharing your voice more openly.

00:06:10: So what is important Is whatever it is The moment you chose this path.

00:06:15: You aren't only choosing beautiful side of experience.

00:06:19: You are choosing entire field.

00:06:22: That's how polarity works.

00:06:24: If you choose deep love, You also become available for vulnerability.

00:06:29: if you chose freedom .You Also Become Available For Uncertainty!

00:06:34: If you Choose visibility ,you also Become Available To Other People's Opinions !

00:06:39: If You Choose Expansion, You Also Become Avalable For Change and so on... And this is where so many people become confused.

00:06:48: They ask the universe for something beautiful, then The first uncomfortable experience appears and they immediately think I must have made a wrong decision.

00:06:57: Universe doesn't work from me But you know nothing has gone wrong at all Perhaps if simply entered the full experience of what you asked for.

00:07:10: So let's stay with the example of love for moment.

00:07:12: most people long for a relationship where they can feel safe, seen and deeply connected.

00:07:19: They want intimacy and trust – we all want that now!

00:07:22: We also want to open our hearts completely.

00:07:26: But the moment you truly open your heart with another person You become capable of being heard Because openness always includes vulnerability.

00:07:37: They belong together.

00:07:38: There are two sides of same coin And this is exactly why so many people close their hearts after they've been disappointed.

00:07:46: They decide that if they never allow themselves to laugh that deeply again, they'll never have the experience of pain again!

00:07:54: But what you're actually doing is closing your door into an entire experience not only for the pain but also deep love.

00:08:04: Life doesn't allows us choose just one side or coin.

00:08:07: it always offers a whole coin.

00:08:11: The same is true in so many other areas of life.

00:08:14: the moment you decide to live more authentically, not everyone will understand You!

00:08:19: The moment you begin speaking your truth some people may disagree with you... ...the moment you allow yourself to grow certain relationships may change.

00:08:30: None of that means you're moving in a wrong direction.

00:08:34: it simply means you are experiencing on the other side.

00:08:39: Once we understand this, we stop taking these moments so personally.

00:08:43: Instead of asking why is it happening to me?

00:08:46: We begin saying ah!

00:08:48: This belongs to the experience I've chosen and somehow that changes everything because resistance begins to soften and because you stopped expecting it be one-sided.

00:09:00: One of the most empowering aspects of The Law Of Polarity is this.

00:09:04: Whenever something appears in your life that you don't want, whenever you find yourself resisting a situation... ...whenever look at your reality and think this isn't what I wanted….

00:09:15: …the opposite already exists!

00:09:18: Think about it for a moment – if you're looking at your life & saying i dont have enough.. ..the potential for abundance is ALREADY part.

00:09:28: If you're saying, I don't feel loved.

00:09:30: The potential for love already exists there!

00:09:34: if You are saying nothing is moving movement Is already possible.

00:09:39: so polarity remains us that Nothing has ever fixed nothing as ever final.

00:09:45: everything Already contains the potential For transformation and i think There's something incredibly comforting about That Because it remains us that we are never trapped.

00:09:56: We may feel stuck, we may feel discouraged but we're never without possibility.

00:10:02: So what does this mean in practice?

00:10:05: It means instead of becoming discouraged by what is showing up on your life you become curious.

00:10:12: You ask yourself if this one pole What's the other?

00:10:18: What possibility already exists here?

00:10:21: I haven't connected to yet.

00:10:24: And then instead of identifying with your current reality, you begin aligning yourself at the pull that you actually want to experience.

00:10:32: Not by pretending or forcing herself into toxic positivity but by beginning to align through awareness Through understanding and consciously changing your vibration Because this is where these hermetic laws come together.

00:10:48: The law of polarity reminds us that both poles always exist, and the law of vibration reminds us we are able to move between them.

00:10:57: And awareness is what makes this movement possible.

00:11:01: So I truly think it's a key for me.

00:11:05: this changed my entire life.

00:11:09: instead of seeing challenges as proof something was wrong I can begin asking what is life inviting me to see here?

00:11:17: What's the other side of this experience, and those questions immediately open a different perspective.

00:11:26: They move us out from resistance into curiosity – out-of-fear into possibility!

00:11:32: Because Life Is Rarely As Fixed as It Appears In The Moment.

00:11:36: This why I love that Universe Law so much.

00:11:39: they invite us understand Life And the more we understand these universal principles, The more gracefully We can move with life instead of constantly pushing against it.

00:11:52: and I truly believe that a law of polarity is one Of the most liberating principles to remember because It reminds us That every experience Is bigger than the moment We are currently standing in.

00:12:05: There's always another perspective Always Another possibility Always Another pole.

00:12:11: So today, I simply want to leave you with this question.

00:12:14: Where in your life have you been looking at?

00:12:17: only one side of the coin?

00:12:19: Have you forgotten that another possibility already exists?

00:12:23: and maybe there's an area where things can never change?

00:12:29: or perhaps you've been resisting experience without realizing it belongs something deeply desired.

00:12:38: so take Notice where polarity is already showing up in your life.

00:12:45: Notice how often life invites you to see more than one perspective, and maybe you'll discover that the universe is far more generous then it first appears!

00:12:57: So... If this episode resonated with you I would love to hear from you Tell me what your experience with the love of polarity has been.

00:13:06: Has this principle already changed the way Or is this a completely new perspective for you?

00:13:13: I would love to know.

00:13:15: And if you think there's someone in your life that'd like to hear it, maybe tag her or forward the episode!

00:13:25: Thank You so much for listening.

00:13:27: In our next episode we'll continue exploring the Hermetic Laws together.

00:13:31: until then i'm sending you SO MUCH LOVE.

00:13:34: Take good care of yourself and ill see you very soon.

00:13:39: Yours Michelle.